adding stories to a session
Without sounding like a broken record [I hope] this structure is offered as just one way of playing with how we might include stories in a hypnotic session.
I was delighted to hear about a client who travelled a long distance to see Erickson and to be hypnotised by him. He arrived for his 2 hour appointment and put a cheque on Erickson'd desk and said "This is to pay for your time". Erickson heard that he was being paid for his time, and over the next 2 hours he tried unsuccessfully to assist this man to go into hypnosis. At the end of the 2 hours, Erickson thanked the client for paying for his time, expressed his regret that he had been unable to hypnotise him, and just as the client was leaving, Erickson said that he wanted him to meet his wife. When Mrs Erickson came out, Erickson told her that this man had travelled a long distance, and unfortunately he was not able to be hypnotised. Mrs Erickson also expressed her regret about the result, and then as the client turned to go out the door, Erickson said "I'd like to shake your hand". Erickson then converted the handshake into a catalepsy of the client's right hand, gently lead him bak into the office, and proceeded to do the hypnotic work the client had requested. I like this story because it can be a reminder that there's no fixed order in our work.
My invitation, then, is to have some fun with this structure, try it out with friends, colleagues, clients, and see what variations you can create.
I'd recommend that you download the pdf and use that as a way of designing a session, and ... as always ... please leave a comment about what you found useful!
4 comments
Very interesting. I am alreody relaxed by the idea of a story.
I sometimes struggle to find an acceptable story for the situation, but I appreciate this structure.
Me too, and when I remember "What's missing?" I an usually find something relevant.
You know we all have so many stories that we have happen to us over a lifetime and we are not limited by just them. We can always retell a "my friend John" story about really anything we heard about. I can remember going to 12 step meetings years ago because of an addiction issue that someone I Love was dealing with. While doing my own step work they asked me if i could think of what I wanted to make amends for and because I felt like I had done nothing wrong I was unable to think of anything, not a single thing. Until I thought of just one. One thing I could have done better and needed to make amends for. And you know then I thought of another and then a couple more and before long I felt overwhelmed by all the things, and all the times I could have done better. Funny how that works!
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