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The following structure is offered as a way of playing with the various components, as a place to vary from, and even forget about as soon as possible ...
What do you like to do? to create a mood of resourcefulness
What do you like about that? to clarify - like a window into someone’s soul
What’s the problem? that you would like to make some change
What’s the problem about that? to disclose what background concern is being challenged
What’s missing? to inform us all about what we are looking for
Invitation into hypnosis
Would it be OK with you to [go to likes]
then become more focused
then allow for increased absorption
we can observe and comment on any changes to enhance
Now the client is focused and absorbed in the experience of their “likes”, we can explore together, and find whatever the messing resource is that is missing for the client to have their problem.
We can ask the client to learn that resource, to sit in it, absorb it, get to know it …
Then we can ask the client o bring this resource from their “likes” to what was a problem.
Next we can invite the client to come out of hypnosis
Ask “What’s different?”
And finally say “Thank you!”
I'd recommend that you download the pdf and fill in the details as you practice with a friend, colleague or client.
The more opportunities you make to play with this, the easier it will become, and the sooner you will be able to leave this structure behind ... and play.
And please ... leave a comment about what you found useful in the exercise.
4 comments
Rob
I like the gentle way your structure unfolds. I usually check in the client, like a mini meditation letting them arrive.. feeling feet on the floor ect.. and then begin questioning of what they would like, to happen/assist. Also prior to the first session I get myself (not always successfully) to having the idea, that all will be okay, in the session.
Allowing the person to be open to resist and question the process. This challenge in turn, allows me to take the perceived pressure off myself. As it opens the possibility of them failing and then relaxing into the bizarre. Not everyone is ready to be comfortable with the unknown it takes practice! I am still learning/grappling with that notion. Thanks Rob
Thanks for your comments Selyna. I have found Erickson's comment "You can always be totally confident that each client has all they need to solve their problem" to be so reassuring, and a remionder to get our attention on the client, and away from any self-consciousness.
Do hugs induce catalepsy as well? I have found that hugging people makes them relax, but sometimes if they are too aroused it backfires. In the case of heightened arousal I have to hug the person heaps (once per day) to get them to calm down. Are hugs a form of hypnosis?
Maria, I see a lot of similarities betweewn hugs and catalepsy, and also between hugs an hypnosis. A lot of similarities and a lot of usefulness.
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